She never love you...

Welcome back to My love den...its been a while and I think it is necessary to write again...so how are you doing?

Lets talk about something a little bit different today...

I want to start with story I heard on radio yesterday, and it actually touched me...A guy met a lady some years back, who was jilted by a guy who prevailed on her to carry out several abortion and eventually abandoned her...devastated and dejected, she started contemplating ending her life and everything about her...all these while, she left her friends and close relatives, just to be alone, and eventually she started thinking of suicide.

Then along the way, this guy met her and manage to talk her out of taking her life, he never stop there, he restored her back to her relatives and got her enrolled for a nursing course...During her nursing programme, the guy told her that he is interested with her and will like to marry her, she reminded the guy about her terrible past life of abortion but the guy insisted that he doesn't mind, and that he do love and care about her so much...when she discover that the guy is serious, she eventually agreed to marry him.

All along, she has not heard anything from her runaway boyfriend...this serious guy stayed all the way with her unfil she finished from nursing school, then he help her to get a good job in a reputable hospital in the outskirt of the town...

Now when the guy realise that his girl is now doing well and responding well to her career, he approached her and inform her that it is time for them to settle down, she agreed, and told him that she will take him home to meet her family as the husband to be, very soon...

Then all of a sudden, the guy who compelled her to undergo series of abortion ran into her, and the tide automatically changes...the lady stop picking the call and replying to the text messages of the man that has been with her in her time of trouble, and their relationship grew from bad to worst...Then one day, a close friend of this guy learn that this lady was getting married to this same man who has put her through the difficult times, and came and told his friend about the news, and the most painful aspect of this story is that these two decided to fix their marriage on the day his birthday falls...it was so painful!

After her wedding, she later looked for him, saw him and did apologize, but the deed had been done...
So where is the lesson in all this? SORRY...SHE NEVER LOVED YOU, period!!!...There are three stages at which a relationship can be terminated, one is at the beginning of the relationship, the second is at the middle of the relationship, while the third is at the end of the relationship. Out of these three, the last one is the most painful, because of the level of commitment, that had already been put into the relationship...

I think the guy was not sensitive enough to realize that her heart and commitment was not wholly in the relationship, and though I felt for him, I still blame him...he waited too long for the most difficult time in the relationship to learn the rope, and he paid for it...he must have seen the signs that her heart and mind wasn't in the relationship, but he ignore them. Whether you are a lady or a guy, it is always important to look for genuine commitment and a total heart as the relationship progresses, and if there is little or none, it would be nice to pull off as you came in, because of a disappointment that could shatter you...

So, when next you fall in love, ask yourself this sincere question as the relationship progresses..."does she truly loves me"? Don't wait till the time your heart will be shattered, for if you do, you may eventually end up having a bad nightmare...

I will love to hear from you...if surely this series has been of help to you one way or the other, feel free to share your experience in the comment box below...

From: dwise